"Live God-Ordained Purposes of Mortality," Says Elder Pieper
By Marianne Holman, Church News staff writer
- Elder Paul B. Pieper spoke about work, marriage, and children at a BYU–Idaho devotional February 19, 2013.
- Learning to actively work toward our potential is an essential lesson of our earthly experience.
- Eternal marriages are built upon faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, and work. Children go hand-in-hand with marriage.
“Despite our uniqueness, the Lord has revealed truths about the purposes of this mortal life that apply to all of us.” —Elder Paul B. Pieper of the Seventy
“Each person is placed on the earth in unique settings and circumstances,” he said. “Despite our uniqueness, the Lord has revealed truths about the purposes of this mortal life that apply to all of us.”
Elder Pieper called these truths “realities of mortality” and shared three specific realities that are necessary for all to fulfill the purposes for which they came to earth.
“If we are to gain the fullest blessings and benefits from this mortal experience, we must understand these realities,” he said. “Failure to understand and focus on them will result in our time on earth being misspent, underutilized, and perhaps utterly wasted.”
He related a parable about a young woman who worked hard to qualify and prepare for college, but soon after enrolling and paying tuition got distracted with convenient, interesting, and comfortable things. She lost sight of her education and after four years was shocked to learn she hadn’t done the necessary steps to graduate.
“If we are to accomplish our purposes here on earth, it is not enough that we were valiant and faithful in our pre-earth life,” he said. “It is not enough that we have arrived on earth, have a mortal body, and will live here for a lifetime. To make our time here meaningful, we must live and experience the God-ordained purposes of mortality—fully, completely, and wholeheartedly—rather than becoming distracted by things that are interesting, comfortable, and convenient.”
Elder Pieper shared three “realities” or experiences in mortality that will lead individuals to “mortal diplomas.”
“Learning to work—training and disciplining our minds, bodies, and spirits to exert, produce, achieve, and progress—that’s the very foundation reality of every mortal life,” he said. “It is the means by which we become like God and accomplish His purposes on the earth.”
To work brings contentment and a sense of self-worth, he said.
“The adversary has convinced many in our day that a primary goal in life is to avoid work,” he said. “In today’s societies, many people concentrate on finding jobs that pay well but require little effort, investments or schemes that pay high returns without any work, and programs that pay for what we want at no cost to us. Some seek to avoid work by borrowing and living on money they never intend to repay. They are unwilling to work, budget, and save before they spend.”
If individuals fail to learn to work while in mortality, they will fail to achieve their full potential and happiness in this life and will not develop the qualities and attributes required for eternal life.
Eternal marriage is the second fundamental purpose or reality of mortality, he said.
Elder Pieper said that Satan is twisting and distorting the realities of mortality. He is working overtime to destroy the very meaning and importance of marriage in the minds of men and women. “To some, he sells the lie that marriage is not necessary, that love is enough,” he said. “To others, he attempts to use legalized marriage to legitimize immoral relationships. To those diminishing few who believe in marriage, he lowers its priority in relation to education and financial security. He engenders fear of the sacrifices and difficulties associated with marriage. Frozen by fear, many sit still as objects being acted upon, rather than moving forward to act in faith.”
Successful marriages are built upon faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, and work, he said.
“Begin today to build those attributes into your personal life,” Elder Pieper counseled. “As you do, the Lord will open the way for you to receive the fulness of the blessings He has prepared for His children—the new and everlasting covenant of marriage.”
“Marriage and children go together,” he said. “The procreative powers that make mortal birth possible are to be used only between a man and a woman, legally and lawfully wedded.”
Elder Pieper said that in today’s world many voices are minimizing the importance of having children. He invited his wife, Sister Melissa Pieper, and his mother, Sister Norma Pieper, to share their testimonies of the wonderful institution of marriage and raising children.
“Now, my dear young sisters and brothers, together with agency, mortality is one of the greatest gifts our Father has given us,” he said. “He loves us and wants us to use this gift fully and completely. Only by embracing and focusing on these realities can we fulfill the purposes for which we came to earth.”