The foundation of a righteous home is the parents' righteousness. If we desire
others, especially our children, to be obedient to gospel principles, we must first look
to our own integrity and obedience. When we live by correct principles, our children will
be more likely to follow our example.
Our obedience, however, does not assure us an easy life free of problems nor that our
children will automatically follow our example. However, by earnestly seeking the Lord's
help and striving to be good parents, our chances for success will be greatly increased.
The example of an honest parent humbly struggling to live the gospel can greatly
influence children. Despite what we might think, children are not discouraged by imperfect
parents. In fact, parental honesty, along with parental repentance, is important. A parent
who admits his own wrongs and honestly strives to overcome them is trying to become
perfect. His honest behavior invites his children to be honest. Parents who honor the
covenants and promises they make with God and men teach integrity to their children.
Richard Repents
Richard had been searching for a late night snack and found an uneaten sweet roll
in the bread drawer. After having the roll and a cold glass of milk, he went satisfied to
bed. About 7:15 A.M., the quiet morning was interrupted by the obviously irritated voice
of his four-year-old daughter: "Who ate my roll?"
"I did, sweetheart," Richard answered. "I'm sorry; I didn't know it
was yours."
She appeared in the doorway of the bedroom, one hand on her little hip. Richard
humbly said, "Next time, I'll ask, ok?"
"Ok," she replied forgivingly, "but don't forget!"
That afternoon, Richard brought home another sweet roll for his little daughter.
His repentance taught more than the value of honesty; Richard's daughter also
learned that her father respected her rights.