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Making Work Fun
If the word dishes triggers your family's disappearing act, or if you hear
"just a minute, mom" from a distance, this activity is for you. Helping your
family enjoy working will take creativity. Try some of the ideas given below.
Activity
- Make a vest with two pockets for each child. Attach a turtle
on one pocket and a rabbit on the other. Write jobs to be done on three-by-five-inch
cards and put them in the turtle pocket. (If the child is too young
to read, use a picture for the job description.) You may wish to start
out with tasks as simple as brushing teeth or washing hands. The child
can put the cards for the jobs he completes in the rabbit pocket.

- Make an apron for each major household job with a job description
written on each one. The person responsible for the job wears the apron
until the job is finished. You may even include a hat for the cook.
Use your favorite apron pattern and embroider, iron, stencil, or write
the jobs on the aprons. Sew a ring onto this apron to hang a dust
cloth from. Make this apron of vinyl or plastic.
- Make a chart to show whose turn it is to set the table or wash
the dishes. Slip the spoon of the assigned member of out of the container
and into the paper strip on the day that it is his turn to set the table.
On the day that someone is to wash the dishes, put his plate into the
dishpan.

- Make a "Looking Good" chart and hang it in your bathroom.
List on it the things each person is to do as he gets ready. This is
especially good for little children, who may need to be reminded of
what they should do each morning.
- Make a work list for family duties. Have family members brainstorm
for a minute, thinking of all the jobs that need to be done around your
house (prepare meals, go shopping, iron clothes, set the table, cook
the food, do dishes, tend the baby, take out the garbage, pick up the
clutter, mow the lawn, wash windows, or sweep the sidewalks).
Next, arrange these jobs according to how often they need to be done—daily,
twice weekly, weekly, monthly, semiannually, or annually.
Now decide together who is capable of performing these duties and who
enjoys doing them. Write those names beside the duties.
To assign unwanted jobs, write them all on slips of paper. Place these
slips inside balloons; blow up the balloons and tie them. Attach the
balloons to a board or heavy cardboard with tape. Pass out darts and
let the family throw them at the balloons. Each family member gets the
job inside the balloon he pops. Decide together how long each person
will keep doing the job. Record this on the work list.
Brainstorm for a few minutes of the subject of the unwanted jobs. Think
together of ways to make the burden light. For example, what are five
fun ways to carry out the garbage? (Whistle while you're doing it, carry
it out on a skateboard, walk backwards, grumble and mumble, carry it
in a wagon, pay somebody to do it for you.) Come up with all the creative
solutions you can, and use them.
Instead of a list, you may want to use a job jar to draw your jobs from.
A job wheel works well with older children.
- Reward yourself when you have completed all your work. Hold
a victory party. Have a wiener roast, an ice cream party, or a water
fight. You may want to divide the family into two teams and see which
one can get their work done fastest. The losing team could then cook
dinner for the winners, take them to a movie, or do anything else they
can think of.
- Make dinner time more fun. Try some of these ideas:
- Have a formal dinner party in the middle of the week.
Brush up on table manners.
- Have all the boys, including dad, become waiters for an evening.
Dress them like waiters and make sure they use good manners all evening.
- Let your family go shopping with you through the advertisement section
of your newspaper. Let them help decide on good buys. Write the items
you choose on a sheet of paper and plan your next week's menu around
them.
- Use shopping time as a one-to-one time with your children. Tasks
such as peeling potatoes, folding napkins, or cleaning out drawers
also provide moments for listening and sharing.
- As a family, set some basic guidelines for table manners, eating
schedules, snack times, and cleanup.
- Play games to make work pleasant:
- Have your children pretend to be puppets, robots,
or soldiers. Wind them up and let them do their work.
- When the house is wall-to-wall clutter, hold a family "panic-pick-up-time."
Set your timer and see how many things can be picked up and put
away in ten minutes.
- Scrub to music, especially fast, rousing music.
- Wash the dishes for ten minutes; then dry them for ten minutes.
- Play "Beat the Clock." Time a job to see how much time
it normally takes to complete it. Then set your timer and race against
the clock. Try to cut down the time without giving up quality. You
can even have a family contest to see who can set the family time
record.
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