| All Things Shall Work Together for Your Good
Susan W. Tanner
Young Women General President
As we search, pray, and believe, we will recognize
miracles in our lives and become miracle workers in the lives of others.
I love to read. But I can hardly stand it if a
novel gets too intenseif the hero's life is too dangerous or sad
or complicated. So I have to read ahead to the end just to make sure
that everything will turn out all right for the main character.
In a sense all of us are in the middle of our own
novels, our own life stories. Sometimes our stories feel very intense,
and we would like to read ahead to know our own end, to make sure that
everything is going to turn out all right. While we don't know the particular
details of our life's experiences, fortunately we do know something about
our futures, if we live worthily.
We are given this insight in Doctrine
and Covenants 90:24: "Search diligently, pray always, and be believing, and all
things shall work together for your good, if ye walk uprightly." This
stunning promise from the Lord that all things shall work together for
our good is repeated many times in the scriptures, particularly to people
or prophets who are suffering through the trials of their own life stories.
I sense that this promise comes from a tender,
caring Father who desires to bless us and give us reason to hope through
our earthly journey. Knowing that eventually all things will work together
for our good will help us endure affliction like the faithful people
from the scriptures who knew of His promises and trusted in them, "having
seen them afar off, and were persuaded of them, and embraced them" (Hebrews
11:13). We too can embrace this promise.
Sometimes we see immediate fulfillment of the promise.
Other times we plead for years before we see the desired promises fulfilled.
Sometimes, as with faithful Abraham, we may embrace the promises but
die "in faith, not having received the promises" (Hebrews
11:13) while on earth. While it may be true in some instances that
our promised blessings will be fulfilled only in the eternities, it is
also true that as we search, pray, and believe, we will often recognize
things working together for our good in this life.
As I read the stories of Jesus' Apostles after
His death, I see that they were frequently and brutally persecuted, stoned,
and imprisoned. But they lived with courage and faith. They knew that
ultimately all things would work together for their good. They also knew
that through interim blessings and miracles, things were working out.
They were sustained, tutored, and protected. They embraced the promises
not only afar off but here and now as well.
A wonderful miracle happened in Peter's life when
he was imprisoned by King Herod. His fellow Apostle James had just been
killed, and now Peter was thrown into jail, carefully guarded by 16 men.
I wonder if he felt like the Prophet Joseph Smith felt as he suffered
in Liberty Jail. It was while Joseph was there that the Lord promised
him that "all these things shall give thee experience, and shall
be for thy good" (D&C
122:7). It might be hard to believe in this promise in the midst
of such trials, but Peter, like Joseph, was blessed by the Lord.
The people of the Church were gathered together
praying "without ceasing" in Peter's behalf. Then something
wonderful happened. During the night when Peter was sleeping between
two soldiers and was bound with two chains, an angel of the Lord "came
upon him" and "raised him up," and "his chains fell
off from his hands." Peter wondered if he were in a dream. He followed
the angel past the guards through an iron gate and out to a city street, "and
forthwith the angel departed from him." Peter then realized it was
not a dream. He had been miraculously delivered. The Lord was blessing
him right then.
He went to the home where members of the Church
were gathered together praying for him. When Peter knocked, a young woman
(just like you young women) named Rhoda came to the gate. She heard and
recognized Peter's voice. The scriptures say she was glad. But in her
excitement she forgot to let him in. Instead, she ran back to share with
the others the great news that Peter stood at the gate. They didn't believe
her and argued with her, saying she didn't know what she was talking
about. Meanwhile Peter still knocked and waited. When they finally came
to him, "they were astonished" (see Acts
12:417).
These people had been continually praying for a
miracle to occur, but when the Lord answered their prayers, they were
amazed. They were surprised at the Lord's goodness in His miraculous
response. Do we recognize the fulfilling of promises in our lives? As
the Savior asked, "Having eyes, see ye not?" (Mark
8:18). Do we have eyes to see?
Everywhere there are young women who are in the
middle of their own stories, facing dangers and hardships. As with Peter
there will be "angels round about you, to bear you up" (D&C
84:88). They will sustain us as we carry our earthly burdens. Often in
our lives, those angels are the people around us, the people who love
us, those who allow themselves to be instruments in the Lord's hands.
President Spencer W. Kimball said: "God does notice us, and he watches
over us. But it is usually through another person that he meets our needs.
Therefore, it is vital that we serve each other in the kingdom" ("There
Is Purpose in Life," New Era, Sept. 1974, 5).
I appreciate wonderful young women and Young Women
leaders, mothers and fathers, and good friends who strengthen one another.
You are the angels that help Heavenly Father's promises to be fulfilled
in the lives of His beloved children.
One Young Women group in Oklahoma sought Heavenly
Father in prayer to determine how to best include a new Beehive who was
deaf. They worked hard to be His instruments and His hands (quite literally)
in helping this young woman. A miracle swept over their entire ward as
they became the angels that would bear up Alexis, the new Beehive.
Alexis said: "I was nervous and excited to
start Young Women. Mom always comes with me to sign for me because I
am deaf. After the opening prayer and song, Sister Hoskin, my Young Women
president, said, 'Alexis, we have a gift for you.' Then all the girls
stood up and started signing something. I knew it was special. Later
I learned it was the Young Women theme. All the girls in our ward had
learned it to surprise me.
"I know Heavenly Father loves me because of
wonderful people here on earth that show me love, especially the girls
in my Young Women [class] and my Young Women leaders who sign for
me and help me learn the gospel" (letter to Young Women general
presidency).
Sister Hoskin, the Young Women president, had prayed
diligently to know how to help Alexis. She wrote:
"I had been the Young Women president in my
ward for only one week when I began to worry about one of my upcoming
Beehives. Alexis is hearing impaired, and I worried about how I could
help her fit in and show her that she was one of us. After being troubled
for many days and after many prayers, I woke in the middle of the night
from a dream where I saw my group of young women standing together, doing
the Young Women theme in sign language. I knew the answer to my prayers.
"It was a big challenge. It took hoursone
entire night of Mutual, then weekly practices before we were ready. When
Alexis's birthday came, everyone was excited and nervous about our surprise.
I pulled Alexis and her mom in front of the girls and said (signing to
Alexis), 'We have a gift for you. Now you are one of us.' Then we stood
and repeated the theme and did it in sign language. The Spirit was so
strong, and there weren't many voices because we were all crying, but
the girls did a beautiful job. Alexis was beaming. She knew she was one
of us.
"We learned that Heavenly Father loves all
of us and that there are times we will be His voice and His hands to
help others feel that love. We learned that serving brings the greatest
joy. I learned the importance of following promptings, even when it involves
a lot of work and seems improbable" (letter to Young Women general
presidency).
Imagine how through the years Alexis's mother has
prayed for her daughter, having all the same hopes and dreams for her
that each mother has for her daughter. She said:
"As the mother of a handicapped daughter,
I am used to doing a little extra to help things work out for her. Because
she is deaf, I am often at her side interpreting for her. You can imagine
the feelings that flooded through me as the young women all began to
sign the Young Women theme for her. As I stood there watching with tears
in my eyes, the verse that ran through my mind was from Matthew
25:40: 'Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren,
ye have done it unto me.'
"The remarkable love and service these young
women have shown just began on that day. Many of them have given of their
time and effort to learn sign language and now help with interpreting
at church for Alexis. My prayers for Alexis have always been that she
would be happy, be progressing, and know that she is loved.
"As a parent, my testimony of the Savior has
been strengthened as I have seen the service and love of these girls
and their leaders. At times, our concern for our daughter has been a
heavy burden, but it has been made lighter by the actions of these faithful
young women and their wise leaders."
This mother had prayed for the Lord's help, and
now through the help of others, angels on earth, she saw all things working
together for the good of her daughter.
Other young women in this ward told how they grew
in giving this service. The Laurel class president related that learning
the theme in sign language was hard work, but they felt the Spirit helping
them in this effort. She said, "We did not rush through the theme
just to say it like usual. We thought about the words and signed it for
someone else so that [she] could know the words too, and that made
me happy to know that she could understand our theme and know that she
was a daughter of God too."
Even the young men got involved. They learned how
to sign "Will you dance with me?" in preparation for an upcoming
dance at a ward Mutual activity. Consequently, Alexis danced every dance.
The priests learned to sign the sacrament prayers for her. The spirit
of love enveloped the entire ward.
In every ward or branch, in every home or family,
there is an Alexis with a special need, physical, emotional, or spiritual,
who is praying and trusting that somehow through her challenges, eventually "all
things shall work together for [her] good." Each of us can be
an instrument in the Lord's hands, an earthly angel who can help the
miracles happen.
I testify that Heavenly Father is a tender, loving
parent who desires to bless us with all that He has. As we search, pray,
and believe, we will recognize miracles in our lives and become miracle
workers in the lives of others. We will be persuaded of His promise that
all things shall work together for our good. In the name of Jesus Christ,
amen
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