Communication between service members and their families is extremely important to ensure that family members stay connected and involved in each other's lives. Deployed members generally will be able to communicate through e-mail messages, telephone calls, letters, and in some cases, Internet video communications; however, it may not be possible to communicate each day. Regular communication helps alleviate family anxiety and concern over the welfare of the deployed member. Although written or e-mailed letters may take longer to prepare, they carry a special meaning to family members and are read and reread, while telephone calls and other forms of communication tend to fade from memory more quickly. Also, letters from home can be a great source in helping the service member remain faithful and resist temptation. Many in the military have commented that receiving inspiring e-mails and letters from family and other Church members helped them resist temptations and remain active in the Church.
Although not physically present, the deployed member can help in preparing family home evening lessons, holding family councils, studying the scriptures, and participating in family prayers through e-mail, telephone, and other forms of communication. Sharing journal entries is another good way to stay close while physically separated. When a deployed service member has maintained regular communication while away, families experience fewer problems upon his or her return.
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