Looking Back: “In Lieu of Flowers, Take an Older Person to Lunch”

Contributed By Gerry Avant

  • 11 January 2018

Two longtime friends laugh as they talk during President Thomas S. Monson’s visit to Eldred G. Smith on his 105th birthday at Brother Smith’s home Monday, January 9, 2012. Photo by Scott G Winterton, Deseret News.

Toward the end of an interview on the occasion of his 80th birthday, President Thomas S. Monson said that he had spoken at many funerals.

While on the topic of funerals, he said that his daughter, Ann M. Dibb, showed him several obituary notices she had clipped out of newspapers. One notice included the phrase “gone fishing” another, “gone home teaching.”

President Monson said that one obituary stood out. It said, “In lieu of flowers, take an older person to lunch.”

“I like that idea,” President Monson said.

President Thomas S. Monson visits with Pat Davies, called as the first patriarch of the Toronto Ontario Stake, which President Monson organized in 1962, on June 26, 2011. Photo by Gerry Avant.

President Thomas S. Monson meets with Thelma Wooley Fetzer, a friend who turned 100 that day. Photo by Gerry Avant.