Traditional Family Championed at World Congress

  By R. Scott Lloyd, Church News staff writer

  • 6 June 2012

At the World Congress of Families, held in Madrid, Spain, on May 25-27, Elder Erich W. Kopischke of the Seventy warned of the negative effects of the decline of family and marriage.

Article Highlights

  • Elder Erich W. Kopischke of the Seventy spoke at the World Congress of Families in Madrid, Spain.
  • He warned that serious consequences come from the societal breakdown of family and marriage.
  • He encouraged faith in the value of marriage and faith in God as solutions to the decline of family.

“Not only do we need to rebuild trust in the value of marriage and family but also faith in God.” —Elder Erich W. Kopischke of the Seventy

MADRID, SPAIN—The traditional family—father, mother, and children—is in rapid decline, though “children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows,” a Church leader warned at the World Congress of Families held in Madrid on May 25–27 (“The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2010, 129).

Elder Erich W. Kopischke of the Seventy addressed the audience at the opening plenary session of the congress. He was introduced by Sister Mary Ellen Smoot, former Relief Society general president.

“Even though many people yearn for traditional family life, fewer and fewer have it,” Elder Kopischke lamented in his speech. “During the second half of the last century, annual marriages in Germany declined by more than 40 percent. Too many young people do not marry anymore. Many foster a variety of personal lifestyles, often driven by fun, freedom, and self-fulfillment.”

The Church leader observed that the “shareholder value” principle of the business world has crept into individual lives and families. He defined that principle as “low investment, quick and high return.”

“The overall credo seems to be: ‘I am willing to marry and even have one or two children if that does not interfere with my career or personal lifestyle.’ And that is exactly what happens: Family and children are planned and built around career and personal interests. Sometimes children even become a hobby. The objective is to increase the pleasurable life for the individual adults.”

Elder Kopischke said the price is high for such a course of action and explained that attributes that build successful marriages and families—“sacrifice, love, consideration, commitment, service, patience, endurance, and fidelity”—are often not found in such relationships.

“Small storms, which everyone has to face in life, cause families to fall apart quickly,” he said. “In today’s world, where almost everybody thinks they should be able to get everything they want, people get more and more selfish and less and less content.”

“The decline of the family is not only reflected in fewer marriages and higher divorce rates but also in far fewer children being born,” he observed. “And those newborns who do come into this world are often born out of wedlock and are being raised by single parents. More than 90 percent of these children live with their mothers and miss the influence of their fathers in their lives.”

This has serious consequences for society, he said, including disoriented and rebelling children whose need for belonging drives them to be attracted to organized gangs, which, in turn, creates a security issue. “Child poverty and lack of educational opportunities for these children are on the rise. Many of them feel they having nothing positive to look forward to in life,“ he said.

Elder Kopischke said the solution includes promoting religious faith. “Not only do we need to rebuild trust in the value of marriage and family but also faith in God,” he said. “Religion plays a vital role when it comes to values, responsibility, and appropriate use of agency, which is our ability to make choices. Therefore, today I want to make a case for marriage and family, based and centered on a belief in God and Creator.”

Identifying marriage as part of the Judeo-Christian tradition, he cited Genesis 2:18, 24, the commandment that a husband and wife “shall be one flesh.” He also quoted from “The Family: A Proclamation to the World,” published in September 1995 by the Church.

“A civilization and society can and will be only as strong as its families,” he said and added, “A family can and will only be as strong as the marriage on which it is based.”

The World Congress of Families has as its purpose to “stand up for the position of the traditional family, in a time of eroding family life and declining appreciation for families in general.”

Since 1997, the congress has been held in Prague, Czechoslovakia; Geneva, Switzerland; Mexico City; Warsaw, Poland; and Amsterdam, Holland. Concurrent with the sessions of the congress, Elder Frerich Görts, former undersecretary of the German federal government and currently the Church’s representative to the European Union institutions, attended the International Parliamentary Forum. The forum gathered the foremost activists and leaders of civic, educational, and research organizations defending the natural family and life as fundamental principles, together with government representatives.

While Elder Kopischke was addressing the audience of more than 2,000 delegates at the congress and Elder Görts was engaging with political and civic leaders, Elder Jim Brande and Sister Carol Brande, public affairs missionaries, were managing a booth at the congress with the help of local Church members. The booth featured family home evening and offered a selection of family-related videos visitors could watch about the Church’s support for the traditional family.