Is budget a dirty word? Most people think so. But everybody uses the money they receive. They spend it, save it, give it away, or invest it. When you budget, you are just planning how you will use your money before you actually use it.
There are four basic steps to budgeting: planning, record keeping, summarizing, and evaluating. In the beginning, keep these four steps simple. As you become more experienced, you will be able to consider your financial matters in greater detail.
The first step is planning. To plan, you must know two things: how much money you will earn and how much you will spend. For most of us, determining our income is easy. We know how much, when, and how often we are paid. A few simple calculations will determine how much money we will actually receive.
To determine how much you will spend, list your expenses by item and amount. Remember to include obligations such as utilities, gas, and other items that you use regularly but for which you do not receive a regular bill. When that list is completed, add all of the discretionary items that you need or want and their cost.
Now prioritize your bills, obligations, wants, and needs. Once the decision is made as to which items are most important, you just need to follow your plan.
The second step is record keeping. Keep track of how you actually spend your money. It is only through record keeping that you can determine how well your budget is working. The records can be kept in any manner that is convenient. Some people carry around a little notebook in which to record all purchases and expenses. Others pay for everything with checks or credit cards and use the check stubs and credit card bills as their record. Still others keep the receipts of every purchase.
The third step is summarizing. You will gather the records of your actual expenses and total the results by category. You should be able to determine the total expense for groceries, gas, clothing, entertainment, and so forth from your records.
The final step is evaluating. Compare your actual expenses with your planned expenses. If there is a difference between the actual and budgeted amount, you will need to determine the reason. Perhaps you budgeted too much or too little. Perhaps you lost control and overspent in a certain category. Perhaps an expected bill was delayed. Perhaps there was an unexpected expense.
With the understanding that comes from your evaluation, you are now ready to prepare your next budget. Budgeting is done in cycles. A budget cycle occurs each time you complete the four budgeting steps. Since many bills are paid monthly, you may plan a month’s budget at a time; or you may prefer to work with a quarterly or even yearly budget. In any case, after you have gone through a complete budget cycle you will be able to adjust your new budget based on your actual experience. Each budget will be a little better than the last one. As you learn and become more experienced, your increased skill will allow you to meet more of your financial goals.—, Sandy, Utah
Extending the Blessings
Several years ago we decided to start the tradition of having a family home evening with our extended family. On the first Monday evening of each month, a different family hosts a potluck dinner and prepares the main course and the lesson. We also celebrate any birthdays that come during the month.
Some of our family home evenings have been simple, and others have been elaborate. Over the years we have viewed Church videos, played games, shown slides, given lessons from the family home evening manual, and written letters or recorded tapes for our family members serving as full-time missionaries.
One Mother’s Day we made a special Mother’s Day card for our 97-year-old grandma. On the card, everyone wrote a note of love and appreciation for her. Then we had a neighbor take a picture of the entire group, and we pasted the photo to the card.
Another evening we all told faith-promoting experiences. The spirit of the gospel was strong as we shared our testimonies.
Another time our family home evening came on my mother-in-law’s birthday. She sat in a chair in front of the group, and each of us expressed our love for her. We recorded the family home evening on an audiocassette so she could listen to it many times.
For Christmas one year, we decided to help another family in need instead of exchanging gifts ourselves. On the first Saturday in December, our extended family home evening group spent the day making pajamas, doll blankets, and other gifts. The following week, we wrapped all the gifts. The Monday before Christmas, we gathered together after dark and loaded Grandpa’s truck with the gifts, a turkey, and other foods for a delicious Christmas dinner. We stopped near the family’s home and watched as a few of the older boys quietly placed the presents and food on the front porch. Then they rang the doorbell and ran. We were thrilled as we watched the parents and their children excitedly gather up the gifts and food.
Greater love has developed among our extended family as a result of these gatherings, and it continues to grow as we share our extended family home evenings each month.—, Kaysville, Utah