Girjaghar ke Dut
Hum aap se gharelu shikshak ke rup me maang karte hain ki aap Parmeshwar ke dut Unke bachchon ke liye bane, apne niyukt hue logo ko pyaar, chinta aur unke liye prathna kare.
Bahut samay nahi hua jab ek avivahith bahan, jise mai Molly, ne kaam se ghar aane par apne pure basement floor ko (5 cm) paani se bhara paya. Turant hi unhone ahesaas kiya ki, unke padosi jiske saath weh drainage pipe baatthe the, ne zyada maatra me kapde dhoe aur nahaya hoga kyonki paani unke ghar me aa pahuchi thi.
Molly ne ek saheli ko bulaya aa kar aur madad karne ke liye, dono paani nikaalne aur mop karne lagi. Usi pal me darvaaze ki ghanti baji. Unki saheli ne kaha, “Tumhare gharelu shikshak aaye hain!”
Molly hassi. “Yeh mahine ka aakhri din hai,”usne jawaab diya, “par mai tumhe yakeen dila sakti hoon ki weh mere gharelu shikshak nahi hain.”
Nange pao, bhigi patloon, aur baalo me bandana, aur bahut hi prachalith latex gloves pahan kar, Molly darvaze tak pahunchi. Uski kadi upastiti uske aankhon ke saamne khadi drishti se tulna nahi kar sakti thi. Weh uske gharelu shikshak the!
“Aap mujhe plumber ke dost dwara gira sakte the!” unhone mujhe baad me batlaya. “Yeh ek gharelu shikshan chamatkaar tha—jaisa Bhai maha sammelan bashan me batlatey hain!” Usne aage kaha: “Par phir jaise hi mai tay kar rahi thi ki unhe choomu yah unhe mop thamau, unhone kaha, ‘Are Molly, hume maaf karna. Hum dekh rahe hain ki tum vyast ho. Hum dakhal nahi dena chahate hain; hum dusre samay par ayenge.’Aur weh chale gaye.”
“Kaun the?” unki saheli ne besment se pucha.
“Mai kehna chahati thi, ‘Zaroor teen Nephite nahi the,’” Molly ne maana, “par maine apne aap par kaabu paaya and shant se kaha, ‘Weh mere gharelu shikshak the par unhe laga ke yeh sandesh baatne ka sahi waqt nahi hai.’” 1
Bhaaiyon, kya hum sanshep me us purohiti kartavya ko jaanch kar sakte hai jise vyakti aur parivaaar vaaalo ke liye “Girjaghar ka pahela madad ka zarya” varnan kiya gaya hai. 2 Pure jangal ko balidaan karke woh kaagaz tayyaar kiya gaya use aayojit aur phir aayojit karne ke liye. Hazaaro uthsaahvaardak baate ki gayi ise protsaahit karne ke liye. Nishchit roop se koi Freudian travel ejensee kaheen bhi yeh nahin batla sakti ki kitni baar is vishay ko lekar doshi paaye gaye hai. Phir bhi abhi bhi hum Prabhu ke aagya maanne ke swikrit star “girjaghar par hamesha pahera dena” 3 tak pahunchne ki koshish kar rahe hai purohiti gharelu shikshan dwara.
Girjaghar ka badalta jansaankikhi ke chunavti ka hum saamna kar rahe hain. Hum jaante hai ki humari sadasyata 30,000 wards aur sakha me bikhre hui hai, jo 188 desho aur bhaagon me hai, apne bhaaiyon aur bahano ke ghar bhent karna Girjaghar ke shuruwaat ke dino se kathin hai jaha pahale padosi apne padosi ko padatha tha jise “block teaching” kaha jata tha.
Saath hi saath, Girjaghar ke kai unito me, gharelu shikshan ke liye kam purohiti adhikaari hain, jiski vajay se bache huo ko athaara se bees parivaaro—ya zyada—karna padtha hai. Lambe raaste tak safar karna, transport ki upladtha aur unchi kimath, aur lambi kaam ke din aur saptha bhi samasya ho sakti hai. Isme juda hua hai bin bulaye mahemaan ki sansaarik rok aur suraksha chintha duniya ke kai padosh me hai—khayr hum samasya ke jathiltha ko dekhna shuru karte hain.
Bhaaiyon, duniya bhar ke bahetarin mein aur jaha yeh ho sakta hai, Girjaghar prayaas karega har ghar me mahine ka ek daura ke liye. Par yah ahesaas karte hue ki duniya ki kai bhaag hai jaha aysa nahin ho sakta hai aur unhe is lakshya ke liye ukssane se hum unhe nakamyaab mehsoos karathe hai, isliye December 2001 mein Pratham Adhyakstha ne purohiti netaaon ke paas yeh chiti likhi, yeh bahut prerith aur madadgaar salaah dete hhue: “Girjaghar me kuch ayse jagah hai,” unhone likha, “jaha … kum purohiti aur anya mushkilon ke karan har mahine har ghar me gharelu shikshan nahi kar payenge. Humne inmein se kuch ki charcha ki hai. “Jab aisi stithi aati hai,” woh hoti rehti hai, “netaaon ko jo kuch sadhan maujood hai uska sarvashresta istamaal karna hai har sadasye ke dekhrekh aur use mazboot banane ke liye.” 4
Bhaaiyon, agar mere ward ya sakha me aisi kathin paristhithi hoti, mere Aaronic Purohiti saathi aur mai Pratham Adhyakstha ke salah ko (jo ab handbook policy hai) is tarah lagoo karta: Pahela, chahe kitne bhi mahine na lag jaaye, hum dharamshastra ki sashanadesh “har sadasye ke ghar bhent karo” 5lagoo karte ek karikaram ki sthaapna kar ke jo jaha tak mumkin ho hume un gharo tak le jaata jo dono uptabhd aur sachcha hai. Us karyekaram ki sthaapna mein zyada prathmikta uplabd samay aur sampark ki avrithi dete jinhe humari sabse zyada zaroorat hai—weh investigator jinhe prachaarak padha rahe hai, naye baptisma liye hue log, bimaar, akela, jo girjagha nahi aa raha, ek abhibavak parivaar jinke bacche kar par hai, ithyaadi.
Sare gharo ke bhent ke anusuchi par dhyaan dete samay, jo hasil karne me shayad kuch mahine lag jaaye, hum aur tarah ke sampark sthapith kar sakte hain in logo aur parivaaro se us zarya se jo Prabhu ne hume diya hai. Nischit roop se hum Girjaghar me apne parivaaro par dhyaan rakhenge aur, jaise dharamshastra kahata hai, “Apni aathmao ke liye ek dusre se vichaar ninimay karna,” 6 Iske saath-saath phone karte, email aur text dwara sandesh bhejthe, aur uplabd social media dwara koi sandesh bhejte. Vishesh sambodith madad ke liye, hum dharamshastra ka udhaaran yah maha sammelan ke baashan se ek line, yah Mormon Message me jo sandesh LDS.org me uplabd hai use bhejthe. Pratham Adhyakstha ke shabdo me, hum jo kuch saadhan maujood hai uska sarvashresta istamaal karte.
Bhaaiyon, aaj raath mai aap se nivedhan karta hoon ki gharelu shikshan ke prathi aap apna drishti badaye. Kripa, aur naye, bahetar tareeke apne aap Prabhu ka dut samjhe unke baccho ke prathi. Iska matlab hai ki hum, Moses ke kanoon jaisa, mahine-ke-anth ka calendar, jaha hum jald se Girjaghar ke magazine ka sandesh dein, jo parivaar pahale se pad chuke hain. Hum asha karte hain, aap susmachaar ki ek vasthavik yug ki sthaapna karenge jaha sadasyon ke liye chinta hogi, ek dusre ke prathi daya aur chinta, aathmik aur shaarirk zarooraton ko pura karna kisi bhi tarike se hoga.
Ab, yah sawaal ki gharelu shikshan me kya “shaamil” hai, tum jo kuch acha karte ho woh “shaamil” hai isliye sab vivran karo! Vastav me, tumhara vwoh vivran manya raktha hai ki jo tumhare dekh me hai tumne unko kaise ashis diya, jiska calendar se kooi lena dena nahi na hi sthaan ka. Yah mayane rakhta hai ki tum apne logo se prem karte ho aur “girjaghar par pahera dena ke” aagya ka palan kar rahe ho. 7
Pichle saal May 30 ko, mera dost Troy Russell ne dhire se apni gaadi garaaj se nikali sthaanya Deseret Industries ko kuch cheeze daan karne ke liye. Usne apne piche ke paiye ko kisi cheez ke upar jaate mehsoos kiya. Yah sochte hue ki uski gaadi se kuch samaan gir gaya hai wah gadi se niche uthra aur dekha ki uska nao-saal-ka beta niche pada tha. Cheenkna, purohiti ashirvaad, paramedic dal, haspataal ke karamchaari—woh, is sthithi me, kisi kaam ke nahi the. Austen ja chuka tha.
Neend nahi aa rahi thi, shaanti nahin mil raha tha, Troy ashaant tha. Usne kaha yeh uske sahan shakti se bahar tha aur wah aur nahin seh sakta tha. Par us pida dayak ulangan me theen mukti ke bal aye.
Pahala Swarg ke Pita asvaasth pyaar, ek upasthithi ka madhyam ne Pavitra Aatma dwara Troy ko shaant kiya, unhe sikhlaya, pyaar kiya, aur fusfusaya ki Parmeshwar ek khoobsurat aur parishud bete ko khone ke baare me sab jaanthe hain. Dusra, unki patni Deedra, jisne Troy ko apne haatho se thaama aur unhe pyaar kiya aur unhe yaad dilaya ki usne bhi ek beta khoya hai aur nirdhaarith thi ki woh apne pati ko nahi khoyegi. Teesra is kahani me hai John Manning, gharelu shikshan asadhaaran.
Mujhe sach mein nahi pata ki John aur uske juniyar saathi Russell ke ghar daura karte samay kaun se saarni me the, yah unhe kya sandesh mila jab woh wahan pahunche, yah unhone apne anubhav ko kaise report kiya. Mai ithna jaanta hoon ki Bhaai Manning ne pichle vasant Troy Russell ko driveway waali durghatna se uthaya jaise ki weh khud chote Austen ko utha rahe the. Jaise gharelu shikshak yah pahredaat yah susmachaar ka bhai use hona that, John ne sadhaaran rup se Troy Russell ko sambhaalne me apna farz nibhaya. Unhone aise shuruwaat kiya, “Troy, Austen chahata hai ki tum phir apne payr par khade ho jao—jisme basketball shamil hai—isliye mai har subha paanch baj ke pandrah minute par yaha rahunga. Tum tayaar rahna kyonki mai andar akar tumhe uthana nahi chahata—aur mai jaanta hoonDeedra nahin chahegi mai waisa karun.”
“Mai jaana nahi chahata tha,” Troy ne mujhe baad me batlaya, “kyunki mai har subha Austen ko apne saath le jaata tha mai jaathna tha ki weh yaadein dardbhari hongi. Par John nahi maana, aur mai chala gaya. Us wapasi ke pahale din se, humne baate ki—yah maine baate ki aur John ne sunna. Maine girjaghar tak aur girja se waapas pure samay tak baathe ki. Kabhi kabhi driveway par gaadi khadi karke hum baathe karte the aur Las Vegas ke upar suraj ugtha dekthe the. Shuruwaat me yeh kathin tha, par thodi samay me maine apni taqat ek kamzor 6-foot-2-inch (1.88 m) Girjaghar Ball khiladi se paya, jiske paas ek bahut hi kharaab jump shot tha, par jo mujhse pyaar kartha tha aur jisne mujhe tab tak sunna jab dek mere jeewan me suraj phir se nahi uga.” 8
Mere pavitra purohiti ke bhaaiyon, jab hum gharelu shikshan yah dekhbaal yah vyaktigat purohiti dekhrekh —jo kuch pukaarna chaho—hum iski vishay me baath karthe hain. Hum aap se gharelu shikshak ke rup me maang karte hain ki aap Parmeshwar ke dut Unke bachchon ke liye bane, apne niyukt hue logo ko pyaar, chinta aur unke liye prathna kare, jaise hum aap ke liye pyaar, chinta aur prathna karte hain. Aap Parmeshwar ke jhund ke dekhbaal karein jo aap ke haal se sahmat ho, meri prathna hai, hum sabhi ke Acche Gadadiya, jiska gawahi main hoon, Prabhu Ishu Maseeh ke naam se, amen.