Dusron Ko Madad Karne Ke Liye Madad Paana

Har teen mahine par(quarterly) jo intarviu hote hai dekhrekh waali behno aur Sahayak Sanstha ke Adyakshta ya dekhrekh waale bhaaiyon aur elders korum adhyakshta ke beech ek hi formal report hota hai jo hum dekhrekh kiye logon par denge. Yeh intarviu ek hi maoka hai teen mahino me (1) saope gaye parivaar aur logon ke shaktiyon, zarooraton, aur chunaotiyon ke baare me salaah karne ka; (2) jaanna ki korum, Sahayak Sanstha, ya ward council kin zarooraton me madad kar sakte hai; aur (3) leedaron se seekhne ka aur dekhrekh ke koshishon me protsaahan paane ka.

Elders korum pradhaan aur Sahayak Sanstha pradhaan seedha bishop ko avashyak zarooraton ko batate hai aur unse salaah aur nirdeshan paaenge.

Aapko dekhrekh ke intarviu par aur jaankaari ministering.lds.org par milenge.

Pradhaan Russell M. Nelson ka kehna ki dekhrekh ka prograam ek kabja(hinj) ka jodh hoga jispar Girjaghar ka kaarwaahi jhulega, Elder Gary E. Stevenson jo Barah Devduton ke Korum ka hai ne sikhaya, “Unka drishye(vision) tabhi pura hoga jab … shayad dekhrekh waale bhaai aur behno ko dekhrekh ke intarviu sikhaya jaaega aur us me shaamil kiya jaaega.”²

Dekhrekh waale bhaai aur behno ke liye paanch salaah:

• Salaah paane ke liye intarviu par jaao. Seekhne ke liye tayaar raho.

• Tayaar raho un zarooraton ki charcha karne ke liye jinhe pura karne me tumhe madad chahiye.

• Us insaan ke shaktiyon aur chamtaaon par gaor karo, na ki sirf zarooraton par.

• Un natija ke baare me salaah karo jisse tumhara dekhrekh safal hua ho.

• Adhyakshta(presidency) se sampark karo agar teen mahino ke alawa kabhi salaah zaroori pade.

Leadaron ke liye paanch salaah:

• Yeh zaroori nahi hai ki intarvius lambe ho, lekin paryaapt samay nikale, ayse jagah par milne ki, jahan arthpurn ya thos baat-cheet ho sake.

• Dekhrekh karne waale bhaai ya bahan ki dekhrekh karne ke maoke ka faaeda uthaaye.

• Ayse sawaal na puchein jisse lage ki aap sirf bhent geen rahe hai ya sampark pura kar rahe hai (“Kya aapne apna dekhrekh kiya hai?”). Ayse sawaal puchein jisse unhe jaise pesh aana hai aap sikha sake (“Aapko kya prerna mila jaise aapne us parivaar ke baare me praathna kiya? Kya hua jab aapne un prernaaon par amal kiya?”).

• Dhyaan se sunein aur not kijiye.

• Ek saath salaah mashora karein. Dekhrekh karne waale saathiyon ko revelaishan milte hai unke liye jinse woh bhent karte hai.

Ek dekhrekh ka intarviu kya hai?

Yeh ek baat-cheet hai dekhrekh karne waale bhaai aur elders korum adhyakshta ke ek sadasye ke beech ya dekhrekh karne waale bahano aur ek Sahayak Sanstha adhyaksh ke sadasye ke beech ek aysi jagah par jahan unhe dhoondhne par Pavitra Aatma ka prerna mil sake. Iska natija hoga, dekhrekh karne waale bhaai aur bahanein Uddhaarkarta ke tarike se dekhbhaal, pyaar karne, sikhaane, aur sahanubhuti dene ki prerna paa sake.

Kya yeh teen mahino ke intarviu ek dusre se milkar hi karne chahiye?

Aam taur par yeh intarviu aamne saamne ki jaati hai, lekin phone ya online se bhi kar sakte hai agar aamne saamne milna asambhav ho. Aksar, dono saathi intarviu me bhaag lete hai jab theek ho.

Dekhrekh waale intarviu ka lakshye kya hai?

Dekhrekh ke intarvius dekhrekh karne waale bhaai aur bahano ke liye ek maoka hai abhi ke haalaat janne, bhavishye ke liye yojna banane, aur un logon ya parivaaron tak zaroori madad pahunchaane ke liye. Yeh ek maoka hai batane ke liye ki korum aur Sahayak Sanstha kaun se saadhan de sakte hai.

Mai kaise gupt ya naazuk maamlo ka saamna karun?

Dekhrekh karne waale bhaai aur bahanein gupt jaankaari sirf elders korum ya Sahayak Sanstha pradhaan ko bata sakte hai—ya sidhe bishop se. Gupt ya naazuk jaankaari pehle-Raviwaar ke council sabhaaon me nahi kahi jaani chahiye.

Dekhrekh ke intarvius ke saath saath, pehle-Raviwaar ke council sabhaaein bhi ek tarika hai auron ko dekhrekh me shaamil karne ka. Sahayak Sanstha aur elders korum ke sabhaaon me, Aatma aur grup me auron ke madad se prerna bhaag lene waalon ko mil sakti hai.

Council sabhaaein sirf baat-cheet pe nahi rukti, un sabhaaon se hum Aatma dwara prerit ho kar chaahe niji rup se ya ek grup me kaarye karne ko nikalte hai. Sadasye ek chaahat mehsoos kare sake hai Prabhu ke kaam pura ke, i sabha long se.

“Hum long ke praathna hai aaj,” bolis Elder Jeffrey R. Holland jon Barah Devduton ke Korum ke hai, “ki har ek aadmi aur aurat—aur hum long ke bada jawaan purush aur jawaan mahila—jaada bhakti [rakhi] dil se ek dusre ke dekhbhaal kare me, sirf Maseeh ke pavitra pyaar se prerit ho kar aysa karenge.”⁴