Each young man will develop an appreciation for his body and the godly power of procreation.
Materials needed: Picture 18, Boyd K. Packer (64332); picture 19, A young man; picture 20, A young couple with a family; picture 21, A group of teenagers; picture 22, A young couple with a temple in the background
You may want to invite the member of the bishopric who is responsible for your age-group to read the counsel from Elder Boyd K. Packer that is contained in the lesson.
Review the counsel about sexual purity on pages 26–28 of
For the Strength of Youth.
Suggested Lesson Development
Use the Power of Procreation According to God’s Plan
Read the following statement from President Spencer W. Kimball:
“The earth cannot justify nor continue its life without marriage and the family. Sex without marriage, for all people, young or older, is an abomination to the Lord, and it is most unfortunate that many people have blinded their eyes to these great truths” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1974, p. 9; or Ensign, Nov. 1974, p. 8).
What does chastity mean to you?
Why is chastity so important?
Adviser or bishopric presentation
Present the following counsel from Elder Boyd K. Packer about the importance of moral cleanliness (or have a member of the bishopric do so, as suggested above in “Preparation”). While presenting this counsel, display the pictures found at the back of the manual when suggested.
“[Display the picture of Elder Packer.] My message is of deep importance to you. It concerns your future happiness. The subject should be of great importance to you—why stay morally clean? I approach the subject with deepest reverence.
“In the beginning, prior to your mortal birth, you lived with our Heavenly Father. He is real. He lives, and I bear testimony of it.
“He knew you there. Because He loved you He was anxious for your happiness and for your eternal growth. He wanted you to be able to choose freely and to grow through the power of correct choice, so that you may become much as He is. To achieve this it was necessary for us to leave His presence. Something like going away to school. A plan was presented and each agreed to leave the presence of our Heavenly Father to experience life in mortality.
“Two great things were in store for us as we came into the world. One, we would receive a mortal body, created in the image of God. [Show the picture of a young man.] Through it, by proper control, we might achieve eternal life and happiness. Two, we would be tried and tested in such a way that we could grow in strength and in spiritual power.
“Under the accepted plan, Adam and Eve were sent to the earth as our first parents. They could prepare physical bodies for the first spirits to be introduced into this life.
“There was provided in our bodies—and this is sacred—a power of creation, a light, so to speak, that has power to kindle other lights. It is a sacred and significant power. This power is good.
“You who are teenagers, like every other son and daughter of Adam and Eve, have this power within you.
“The power of creation, or may we say procreation, is not just an incidental part of the plan—it is essential to it. Without it the plan could not proceed. The misuse of it may disrupt the plan.
“Much of the happiness that may come to you in this life will depend on how you use this sacred power of creation. The fact that you young men can become fathers and that you young women can become mothers is of utmost importance to you. [Show the picture of a young couple with a family.] As this power develops within you it will prompt you in the search for a companion and empower you to love and to hold [her].
“I repeat, this power to act in the creation of life is sacred. You can some day have a family of your own. Through the exercise of this power you can invite children to live with you—little boys and little girls who will be your very own—created, in a way, in your own image. You can establish a home, a dominion of power and influence and opportunity. This carries with it great responsibility. This creative power carries with it strong desires and urges. You have felt them already in the changing of your attitudes and your interests.
“[Show the picture of a group of teenagers.] As you move into your teens, almost of a sudden a boy or girl becomes something new and intensely interesting. You will notice the changing of form and feature in your own body and in others. You will experience the early whisperings of physical desire.
“It was necessary that this power of creation have at least two dimensions. One, it must be strong, and two, it must be more or less constant.
“This power must be strong. Except for the compelling persuasion of these feelings, men would be reluctant to accept the responsibility of sustaining a home and a family. This power must be constant, too, for it becomes a binding tie in family life.
“You are old enough, I think, to look around you in the animal kingdom. You soon realize that where this power of creation is a fleeting thing, where it expresses itself only in season, there is no family life.
“It is through this power that life continues. A world, full of trials and fears and disappointments, can be changed into a kingdom of hope and joy and happiness. Each time a child is born, the world somehow is renewed in innocence.
“Again I want to tell you that this power within you is good. It is a gift from God our Father. In the righteous exercise of it as in nothing else, we may come close to Him.
“We can have, in a small way, much that our Father in Heaven has as He governs us, His children. No greater school or testing place can be imagined.
“[Show the picture of a couple with temple background.] Is it any wonder then that in the Church marriage is so sacred and so important? Can you understand why your marriage, which releases these powers of creation for your use, should be the most carefully planned, and the most solemnly considered step in your life? Ought we to consider it unusual that the Lord directed that temples be constructed for the purpose of performing marriage ceremonies?
“Now there are other things that I will tell you as a warning. In the beginning there was one among us who rebelled at the plan of our Heavenly Father. He vowed to destroy and to disrupt the plan.
“He was prevented from having a mortal body and was cast out—limited forever from establishing a kingdom of his own. He became satanically jealous. He knows that this power of creation is not just an incident to the plan, but a key to it.
“He knows that if he can entice you to use this power prematurely, to use it too soon, or to misuse it in any way, you may well lose your opportunities for eternal progression.
“He is an actual being from the unseen world. He has great power. He will use it to persuade you to transgress those laws set up to protect the sacred power of creation.
“In former times he was too cunning to confront one with an open invitation to be immoral. But rather, sneakingly and quietly he would tempt young and old alike to think loosely of these sacred powers of creation. To bring down to a vulgar or to a common level that which is sacred and beautiful.
“His tactics have changed now. He describes it as only an appetite to be satisfied. He teaches that there are no attendant responsibilities to the uses of this power. Pleasure, he will tell you, is its sole purpose.
“His devilish invitations are coined into jokes and written into the lyrics of songs. They are acted out on television and at theaters. They will stare at you now from most magazines.
“You grow up in a society where before you is the constant invitation to tamper with these sacred powers.
“I want to counsel you and I want you to remember these words. Do not let anyone at all touch or handle your body, not anyone! Those who tell you otherwise proselyte you to share their guilt. We teach you to maintain your innocence.
“Turn away from any who would persuade you to experiment with these life-giving powers.
“The only righteous use of this sacred power is within the covenant of marriage.
“Never misuse these sacred powers.
“And now, I must tell you soberly and seriously that God has declared in unmistakable language that misery and sorrow will follow the violation of the laws of chastity. ‘Wickedness never was happiness’ (Alma 41:10). These laws were set up to guide all of His children in the use of this gift.
“He does not have to be spiteful or vengeful in order that punishment will come from the breaking of the moral code. The laws are established of themselves.
“Crowning glory awaits you if you live worthily. The loss of the crown may well be punishment enough. Often, very often, we are punished as much by our sins as we are for them.
“Perhaps within the sound of my voice there may be someone who already has fallen into transgression. Some, almost innocent of any intent, but persuaded by the enticements and the temptations, may already have misused this power. Know then that there is a great cleansing power. And know that you can be clean.
“If you are outside the Church the covenant of baptism itself represents, among other things, a washing and a cleansing.
“For those of you inside the Church there is a way, not entirely painless, but certainly possible. You can stand clean and spotless before Him. Guilt will be gone and you can be at peace. Go to your bishop. He holds the key to this cleansing power.
“Then one day you can know the full and righteous expression of these powers and the attendant happiness and joy in righteous family life. In due time, within the bonds of the marriage covenant, you can yield yourselves to those sacred expressions of love which have as their fulfillment the generation of life itself.
“[Display a family picture.] Some day you will hold a little boy or a little girl in your arms and know that two of you have acted in partnership with our Heavenly Father in the creation of life. Because the youngster belongs to you, you may then come to love someone more than you love yourself.
“This experience can come, insofar as I know, only through having children of your own or perhaps through fostering children born of another and yet drawn close into family covenants.
“Some of you may not experience the blessing of marriage. Protect nonetheless these sacred powers of creation, for there is a great power of compensation that may well apply to you.
“Through this loving one more than you love yourself you become truly Christian. Then you know, as few others know, what the word father means when it is spoken of in the scriptures. You may then feel something of the love and concern He has for us.
“It should have great meaning that of all the titles of respect and honor and admiration that could be given Him, that God Himself, He who is the highest of all, chose to be addressed simply as Father.
“Protect and guard your gift. Your actual happiness is at stake. Eternal family life, now only in your anticipation and dreams, can be achieved because our Heavenly Father has bestowed this choicest gift of all upon you—this power of creation. It is the very key to happiness. Hold this gift as sacred and pure. Use it only as the Lord directed.
“I pray God’s blessings upon you. May our Heavenly Father watch over you and sustain you that in the expression of this sacred gift you may draw close to Him. He lives. He is our Father. Of this I bear witness in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen” (Boyd K. Packer, in Conference Report, Apr. 1972, pp. 136–39; or Ensign, July 1972, pp. 111–13).
What was our great purpose for coming into this world with mortal bodies? (To be tested, to show whether we would do all that Heavenly Father commanded us.)
How has God commanded us to use the sacred power of creation? (To express love in marriage and to have children.)
Why must this power of creation be strong and constant? (So that men will accept the responsibility of sustaining a home and a family.)
What responsibility do you have when in the company of girls?
Why should you keep yourself chaste?
When does one begin to enter into unchastity?
How may one become cleansed if he misuses the power of creation? (Confess to his bishop and repent.)
Explain that to obtain a recommend to be sealed in the temple, a young man must verify his worthiness by responding to several questions asked by the bishop or branch president and a member of the stake presidency. One of these questions asks “Do you live the law of chastity?” Another question asks whether there have been any sins or misdeeds in your life that should have been resolved with priesthood authorities but have not been.
A Son of God Who Honors Himself Blesses Himself and His Family
What blessings come to a young man who honors himself by being chaste?
How will your family be blessed by your living the Lord’s law of chastity?
Explain that someday in the future, each of the young men will have an opportunity to select a wife and start a family of his own. Each of his future children and grandchildren has the right to inherit from him a sound body, a clear mind, and a rich spiritual heritage. His children should be able to say, “I am chaste because the Lord commands me to be and because my mother and father lived that way. My body is a temple, and I will keep this temple clean.” By establishing this kind of family tradition, he will transmit his strong points to his posterity.
Reaffirm that the law of chastity, like God’s other laws, was given to bring happiness. Sex is sacred and beautiful when kept that way by proper marriage.
Testimony and challenge
Conclude with your testimony concerning the value and blessings of chastity. Review the counsel about sexual purity on pages 26–28 of