“Contents,” New Era, July 2013, inside front cover–1 New Era Contents Departments 2 The Message Conviction with Compassion Elder Jeffrey R. Holland How we respond to people and situations has to reflect the full breadth of our religious beliefs and our gospel commitments. 10 For the Strength of Youth Honesty and Integrity Elder Christoffel Golden Jr. The true measure of sincere integrity and complete honesty is what you do when no one is around. 14 Questions & Answers “What can I do to help my younger brother and sister be more reverent during sacrament meeting?” 19 Mormonad Tag! You’re It. 27 To the Point Crying (or not crying) when you feel the Spirit; what is a sexual transgression? 33 Come, Follow Me Your Covenant to Always Remember Christ See this article for support for Sunday lessons. 43 The Extra Smile 44 What’s Up? T-shirts with testimony; nature golf; a favorite scripture; and more. 46 Instant Messages The same Church he had rejected before; finding forgiveness; smiles only. 48 From Church Leaders How to Solve Problems Elder M. Russell Ballard We want you to be able to think straight in this very crooked-thinking world. 49 Conference Poster The Source of True Peace Elder Richard G. Scott Features 6 Make the Choice: Friendship Take a friendship quiz. 8 Prophets Speak Up for Marriage and Chastity In general conference, apostles and prophets taught us why we must honor marriage and be sexually pure. 12 Returned with Honor She was an accidental thief. Now what? 16 Family History Leads You to the Temple Your relatives have already done your family history—haven’t they? 20 Capturing Your Family Stories Your own family has stories to tell. You can become a family storyteller. 22 My Summers by the Temple Annual family vacations in Sweden made all the difference for one young man from Norway. 23 10 Cool Things You Can Do with an LDS Account Try these fun ways to participate and serve online. 24 What Can We Do If We Like Each Other? If there’s someone you really like, how can you stay friends and still follow Church guidelines? 28 Power in Covenants Youth share how covenants make a difference in their lives. 30 Prepare, Covenant, and Serve A campout in Alaska helped Aaronic Priesthood holders prepare for the future. 34 Favorite Family Home Evenings Enjoy these fun and inspiring family home evenings from around the world. 36 Forgiving the One in the Mirror Sometimes forgiving yourself can be harder than forgiving others, but it’s necessary for progress. 40 A Sincere Heart and Real Intent Elder James B. Martino I couldn’t find out just because I was curious to know. I had to really want to know.