Life Prep

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When you gaze into your future, what do you see? Do you have a clear picture of what you’ll be doing in a few years? Or is it more like trying to see the bottom of a muddy river?

Sometimes it’s overwhelming to prepare for the future when you aren’t even sure what’s around the next bend. But don’t stress. There are ways to prepare for whatever lies ahead even when you don’t know what that might be.

Certain life skills—skills you can develop now—will help in almost any situation. They also tend to improve most areas of your life in sometimes obvious, sometimes subtle ways.

Keep an eye on the New Era for an ongoing discussion of these “Life Prep” skills. Bit by bit, you can become more prepared for whatever life throws at you! For this month, let’s take a look at strengthening social skills.

Try It Out!

  • Play “The question game” with your family and close friends. Take turns asking get-to-know-you questions like, “When in your life did you laugh the hardest?” or “What’s the most you’ve ever been surprised by a book or movie?” Be creative and try to get beyond the favorite-ice-cream-flavor type questions. Really get to know them.

  • One way to show interest is by spending time on what your friends enjoy. For the Strength of Youth, says: “To have good friends, be a good friend. Show genuine interest in others” ([2011], 16). Try doing one activity a week with a friend or family member that’s one of their favorite things, even if it’s not something you’d normally be interested in.

  • Say something kind, face-to-face, to 10 different people every day for a month.

  • Smile at 25 different people a day for a month (or smile at everybody you meet if you don’t see that many in a given day). Try to include a few strangers in the mix.

  • Practice holding 30-minute conversations with friends and relatives where nobody checks an electronic device the entire time.