“Charity Envieth Not”

Objective: To be grateful for our own blessings and opportunities and to learn to rejoice in the blessings and opportunities of others.

As a young man, Joseph, the son of Jacob, had prophetic dreams that one day he would have power and position. Instead of rejoicing that their younger brother would be favored by the Lord, his brothers “envied him.” (Gen. 37:11.) So thoroughly did they envy him that “they conspired against [Joseph] to slay him.” (Gen. 37:18.)

The Lord turned this evil to great good in the lives of Joseph and his brothers. Joseph was sold into slavery instead of being killed, and in Egypt he rose to a position of power in which he could save his family from famine.

But the brothers’ sin haunted them years later. When Joseph asked them to bring their youngest brother, Benjamin, to Egypt, they said to one another, “We are verily guilty concerning our brother, in that we saw the anguish of his soul, when he besought us, and we would not hear; therefore is this distress come upon us.” (Gen. 42:21.) Joseph forgave them, and the family was reunited, but his brothers had nevertheless wasted many years in unnecessary anguish of soul and had lost opportunities for joy with their brother.

Compare these brothers’ actions with those of the brother of another Joseph—the Prophet Joseph Smith’s brother Hyrum. As a young man, Joseph received visions. When he shared with his family the message he had received from the Lord, Hyrum accepted that message. He became a great strength to Joseph and a valiant servant of the Lord, serving alongside his brother, even dying with him at Carthage Jail. Of Hyrum, Joseph wrote: “Brother Hyrum, what a faithful heart you have got. Oh, may the eternal Jehovah crown eternal blessings upon your head, as a reward for the care you have had for my soul.” (The Personal Writings Of Joseph Smith, comp. Dean C. Jessee, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1984, p. 531.)

These two stories illustrate why “the Lord God hath commanded … that [we] should not envy.” (2 Ne. 26:32.) Every day we face situations in which we may feel envy or covet something another person possesses. We may envy another person’s home and comfortable financial situation, someone else’s talents and abilities, the Church position of another, or the happy family life of another. Such envy can canker our souls.

In recording the words of his father, Mormon, Moroni wrote that charity, the pure love of Christ, “envieth not.” (Moro. 7:45.) To be filled with this love, we must “pray unto the Father with all the energy of heart.” (Moro. 7:48.) If we find ourselves envying someone else’s talents, possessions, life-style, or accomplishments, we should first turn for help to our Father in Heaven. In his mercy, he will bless us with the ability to rise above the destructive pettiness of envy and to rejoice in his goodness to our brothers and sisters.

President Gordon B. Hinckley points out another way we can learn to overcome feelings of envy. “The happiest people I know are those who lose themselves in the service of others,” he says. (Ensign, Aug. 1982, p. 5.)

By serving others, we can learn to focus not on what we feel is lacking in our lives, but on the many blessings the Lord has given us.

By seeking the Spirit of the Lord, serving others, and recognizing the blessings the Lord has given us, we can overcome feelings of envy and rejoice in the Lord’s goodness to all of his children.