Seek the Spirit. Ask the Lord for help as you prepare to meet the needs of the individual or family you are working with. Pray for them before you meet.
Have a conversation with them about what they want to do.
Ask for their name, their birth date, and the last five digits of their membership record number (their helper number).
Prepare and deliver a detailed plan to help the family accomplish their goals and feel the Spirit.
Where possible, invite them to involve other family members in their temple service.
During the lesson, ask them whom they could help to enjoy a similar experience.