“Example Speaks Loudest,” Liahona, Oct. 1995, 24
I am an average 16-year-old Latter-day Saint. I keep the Word of Wisdom, attend church regularly, and have a strong testimony. But there have been some things I’ve not put a whole lot of emphasis on—like not swearing.
At one time, I used to swear. I was always careful not to use the Lord’s name in vain, and I didn’t swear as a regular course of conversation. But if I occasionally said a “bad” word, I didn’t worry much about it.
That was until one vacation when I became close friends with someone who was very careful never to swear. By just spending so much time with her I got in the habit of not swearing.
This new habit presented an interesting problem when school started again. My drama teacher gave a friend and me dialogue to learn for a forensics competition, dialogue that contained some profanity. So whenever my friend and I ran through it together, I modified my lines to avoid having to swear.
A few weeks later, we had to perform this dialogue in a school assembly. When we did, I modified my lines as I always had, and my friend delivered hers as they were printed. I didn’t think twice about it until I was talking to another nonmember friend later that day who told me something very interesting. This person commented that my church must mean a lot to me if I was going to go out of my way not to use profanity.
When she told me that, I was taken by surprise. I know everyone knows I’m LDS, and I know they watch to see how I live my life. But I didn’t think something like altering a few lines to eliminate bad language could have so much importance. My friend said what I had done really made an impression.
It also taught me that each commandment has a purpose and is important. I’d hate to think that someone’s connection or indirect introduction to the gospel of Jesus Christ was a negative one because of something I did. I now know more than ever that leading by example is a great way to share the precious truths I’ve been given.