Maaf Kare Ke Shakti ki Talaash

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Prabhu hum log ke dusron ke maaf kare ke aagya dees hai. Woh hamari madad karega Uske aagyaaon ka paalan kare ke liye, jisme yeh shaamil hai.

Doctrine and Covenants 64:10

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mahila kisi ko uske taraf haath badhaate dekh rahi hai

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Kya kuch aagyaaon ka paalan karna anye aagyaaon se kathin hai?

Ih ek aagya hai jisse bahut log bhaybheet hote hai: “Mai, Prabhu, unko maaf karunga jise mai maaf karunga, magar tumko aavashyak hai ki sabhi manushye ko maaf karo” (Doctrine and Covenants 64:10).

Ruko. Hamein un sabhi ko maaf karna hai jisne humse galat kiya hai? Kya yeh bhi mumkin hai?!

Koi ke aapse apnaanjanak tarike se baat karne ya khaane ke taibal pe se aakhri roti lene ke liye maaf karna ek baat hai. Lekin un gehre ghaawon ka kya? Woh gambheer apraadh jo hamare jiwan ke disha me baadha laa sakte ya badal sakte hai?

Kabhi kabhi koi aisan jon hum log ke bahut chot pahunchaais hai ke maaf kare ke chamta hum log ke pahuch se bahar sake lage.

Yeh achchi khabar hai: Ishu Masih ke madad se, hum kabhi bhi sirf khud karne tak nahi rehte hai.

Use Jo Madad Chahiye Thi

Corrie ten Boom naamak ek Netherlands ke ek Isaai bhakt pehla dafa jaan paais Parmeshwar ke shakti kaise mile uske koi ke maaf kare ke liye.

Uh aur uske bahan Betsy Vishwa Yudh II ke samay ke concentration camps me kaed raha. Nazi jel pehreaaron ne Corrie aur anye kaediyon pe bhayanak durvyavahaar kiya. Uski bahan Betsy toh us durvyavahaar ke kaaran apan jaan bhi gawaae dees. Corrie bach geis.

Yudh ke baad, Corrie dusron ke maaf kare ke changaai ke shakti ke baare me jaanis. Uh aksar apan sandesh public me batlaati thi. Phir bhi ek din uske shabdon ko antim pariksha me daala gaya.

Ek public bhaashan ke baad, camp me ke ek sabse kathor pehredaar uske paas aais.

Uh Corrie se bolis ki yudh ke baad se uh ek Isaai ba ge raha aur jel me jon bhayanak kaam karis raha pehredaar ke rup me, ke pashchataap kar lees raha.

Uh apan haath aage badhaais aur bolis, “Kya aap hamme maaf karega?”

Bhale uh jetna cheez seekhis aur batais raha dusron ke maaf kare ke baare me, Corrie nahi sakis ih admi se haath milaae aur uske maaf kare—chaahe jo bhi ho, apne se toh nahi.

Uh baad me likhis, “Krodhit ki tarah, badla lene ki main soch rahi thi, maine unke paap ko dekha. … Prabhu Ishu, maine prarthna kiya, mujhe maaf kar do aur mujhe madad karo unhe maaf kare ke.

“Maine hasne ki koshish kiya, [aur] maine mushkil se haath uthana chaaha. Mai nahi kar saka. Maine kuch mahesoos nahi kiya, naato thodi si prem ya daya. Aur phir maine ek choti si mann mein prarthna kiya. Ishu, mai use maaf nahi kar sakta. Mujhe Apni chama do.

“Jab maine uske haath ko liya bahot vishwaas na karne waala cheez hua. Mere kandho se mere bujah tak aur mere haath se us tak bijali si daud gaya, jabki mere hriday mein is ajnabi ke liye prem jaaga jisne mujhe khushi se bhar diya.

“Aur to maine jaana ki duniya ki changaai sirf hamari maafi par ya hamari achchaai par nahi tikti hai, Unki maafi par bhi. Jab Wah hume batlata hai ki apne virodhiyon se prem rakh, Woh aagya ke saath, khud prem bhi deta hai.”¹

Parmeshwar wahan aapko Uske aagyaaon ka paalan karane ke madad ke liye hai, jisme maaf karne ki aagya hai—toh bhi jab woh mushkil hai. Woh aapko madad kar sakta hai jaise Usne Corrie ten Boom ko kiya.

Jis Changaai ke Aap Hakdaar Hai

Zindagi mushkil hai. Isme gadbadi hai. Aur isme bahut se aise log hai jise Parmeshwar ki di hui agency(chunne ki shakti) hai.

Uh sab samay jab koi insaan aisa chunaao karta hai jisse aapko gambheer peeda hoti hai—ya galti se bhi—aap sakta changaai ke shakti paae jab aap madad ke vinti karega aur maaf kare ke koshish karega.

Dusar ke maaf kare se aapke hriday ke changaai mile. Parmeshwar ke madad se, jab aap koi ke maaf karega jon aapke saath galat karis hai, aap apan kandha se bhayanak bojh utaarta hai jon aapke rokta raha. Yaha tak ki jab sahi changaai ke rasta mushkil lage, Parmeshwar ke saathe, aapke kabhi bhi ispe akele nahi chale ke padi.