Ko hono Fakatupulaki ha Fāmili Lavameʻá

Teuteuʻi e kau akó ki he lēsoni ko ʻení ʻaki hano fakaʻaliʻali e fakamatala ko ʻeni meia Palesiteni Tēvita O. Makei (1873–1970):

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President David O. McKay

“ʻOku ʻikai ha toe ngāue lavameʻa te ne lava ʻo fetongi huhuʻi e tō nounou ʻoku hoko ʻi ʻapí” (toʻo mei he J. E. McCulloch, Home: The Savior of Civilization (1924), 42; ʻi he Conference Report, Apr. 1935, 116.

• Fakakaukau ki he meʻa kuó ke ako ʻi he kalasi ko ʻení, ko e hā ha ngaahi tefitoʻi moʻoni ʻoku tokoni ki hono faʻu ha fāmili lavameʻá?

Ke tokoni ke tali e fehuʻi ko ʻení, fakaʻaliʻali pea lau leʻolahi ʻa e fakamatala ko ʻeni mei he “Ko e Fāmilí: Ko ha Fanongonongo ki Māmani”:

“ʻOku faʻu mo pukepuke ʻa e nofo-mali mo e ngaahi fāmili ʻoku fiefiá ʻi he ngaahi tefitoʻi moʻoni ʻo e tuí, lotú, fakatomalá, faʻa fakamolemolé, fakaʻapaʻapá, ʻofá, manavaʻofá, ngāué, pea mo e ngaahi ʻekitivitī ʻoku fakatupulakí.”

Fakamatalaʻi ange ki he kau akó kuo aleaʻi ʻa e lahi taha ʻo e ngaahi tefitoʻi moʻoni ʻi he fakamatala ko ʻení ʻi he ngaahi lēsoni kimuʻá. Ke nofotaha e tokangá ʻi he ngaahi ʻulungaanga kuo teʻeki aleaʻí, hiki e ngaahi meʻá ni ʻi he palakipoé:

Vahevahe ʻa e kalasí ki ha ngaahi kulupu iiki pea vahe ha taha ʻo e ngaahi ʻulungaanga ko ʻení ki he kulupu. Kole kinautolu ke nau aleaʻi e ngaahi fehuʻi ko ʻení:

Hili ha taimi feʻunga, kole ki he ngaahi kulupú ke vahevahe ʻenau ngaahi fakamatala fakanounou ʻo ʻenau fealeaʻakí mo e kalasí kotoa.

Fakaʻosi e konga ko ʻeni ʻo e lēsoní ʻaki hono fakaʻaliʻali e fakamatala ko ʻeni ʻa Palesiteni Tieta F. ʻUkitofa ʻo e Kau Palesitenisī ʻUluakí, pea fakaafeʻi ha tokotaha ako ke lau leʻolahi ia:

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President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

“Kuo pau ke tau fakamuʻomuʻa hotau fāmilí koeʻuhí ‘he ʻikai lava ʻe ha ngāue lavameʻa ʻo totongi huhuʻi ha maumau ʻe hoko’ ʻi [hotau ngaahi fāmilí]. ʻOku tau faʻu ha fetuʻutaki fakafāmili loloto mo feʻofoʻofani ʻi hono fai fakataha e fanga kiʻi meʻa faingofuá, hangē ko e kai efiafí, efiafi fakafāmili ʻi ʻapí, mo fiefia fakatahá. Ko e sipela ʻo e ʻofá ʻi he fetuʻutaki fakafāmilí ko e t-a-i-m-i, taimi. Ko e kī ki he fāitaha ʻi ʻapí ko e tuku ha taimi ke fakataha ai” (“ʻO e Ngaahi Meʻa Mahuʻinga Tahá,” Ensign pe Liahona, Nōvema 2010, 21–22).

• ʻE lava nai ke ke vahevahe haʻo aʻusia ʻi haʻo feohi ʻi ha taimi mahuʻingamālie mo ha mātuʻa pe mēmipa ʻo e fāmilí?

ʻEke ki he kau akó pe ʻoku ʻi ai ha taha te ne fie vahevahe ʻenau fakakaukaú pe fakamoʻoni ʻo kau ki he founga ʻoku lava ai ʻe ha taha ʻo e ngaahi ʻulungaanga ʻoku hiki atu ʻi he palakipoé ʻo faitāpuekina e ngaahi fāmilí.

Kole ki he kau akó ke fekumi ʻi he palakalafi ono ʻo e “Ko e Fāmilí: Ko ha Fanongonongo ki Māmani,” ʻo kumi ʻa e ngaahi meʻa pau ko e fatongia toputapu ʻo e mātuʻá ke akoʻi ki heʻena fānaú. ʻI he tali ʻa e kau akó, hiki ʻeni ʻi he palakipoé:

Fakamamafaʻi ʻa e tefitoʻi moʻoni ko ʻení: ʻOku fekauʻi ʻa e mātuʻá ke akoʻi ʻenau fānaú ke feʻofaʻaki mo fetauhiʻaki, tauhi e ngaahi fekau ʻa e ʻOtuá, pea ke hoko ko e kau tangataʻi fonua tauhi lao.

Kole ki he kau akó ke kumi hake ʻa e Teutalōnome 6. Fakamatalaʻi ange ʻoku lekooti ʻi he vahe ko ʻení ʻa e ngaahi fakahinohino ki he fānau ʻo ʻIsilelí ke tauhi e ngaahi fekaú. Fakaafeʻi e kau akó ke lau fakalongolongo ʻa e Teutalōnome 6:4–7 pea fakatatau ʻa e pōpoakí kiate kinautolu ʻaki hono fakafetongi ʻaki honau hingoá e taimi kotoa pē ʻoku pehē ai e folofolá “te ke,” “hoʻo,” “ho,” pe “koe.”

• ʻOku uesia fēfē ʻe hono fakafetongi ʻaki ho hingoá ʻa hoʻo mahino ki he ngaahi veesi ko ʻení?

• Fakatatau ki he veesi 7, ʻoku totonu ke akoʻi tuʻo fiha ʻe he mātuʻá ʻena fānaú?

Tuhu ki he kupuʻi lea “ke feʻofaʻaki mo fetokoniʻaki” ʻi he palakipoé. Aleaʻi e ʻuhinga ʻo e kupuʻi lea ko ʻení ʻaki hono lau e fakamatala ko ʻeni ʻa Palesiteni Sēmisi E. Fausi (1920–2007) ʻo e Kau Palesitenisī ʻUluakí pea fai ange e ngaahi fehuʻi ʻoku hokó:

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President James E. Faust

“ʻOku ʻomi ha ngaahi faingamālie he meimei ʻaho kotoa pē ke fai ha ngāue taʻesiokita maʻá e niʻihi kehé. ʻOku taʻe fakangatangata ʻa e ngaahi ngāue peheé pea ʻoku lava pē ke faingofua ʻo hangē ko ha lea ʻofa, nima fie tokoni, pe ha malimali angaʻofa” (“What’s in It for Me?” Ensign pe Liahona, Nov. 2002, 21–22).

• Ko e hā e lahi ʻo e ngaahi faingamālie ʻokú ke maʻu he ʻaho takitaha ke ʻofa mo tokoniʻi ai e kau mēmipa ho fāmilí?

• Ko e hā te ke lava ʻo fai ke fakamuʻomuʻa ange ʻa hono tokoniʻi e kau mēmipa ho fāmilí?

ʻOange ki he kau akó ha kiʻi taimi ke fakalaulauloto ki he meʻa te nau lava ʻo fai lelei ange ke tokoniʻi e kau mēmipa honau fāmilí pea fakahaaʻi e ʻofa kiate kinautolú?

Tuhuʻi ange ʻa e kupuʻi lea “ke tauhi e ngaahi fekau ʻa e ʻOtuá” ʻi he palakipoé pea fehuʻi ange:

• Ko e hā ʻoku totonu ke hoko ai hono akoʻi ʻo e fānaú ke tauhi e ngaahi fekau ʻa e ʻOtuá ko e tefitoʻi fatongia ʻo e mātuʻá?

Vahevahe ʻa e fakamatala ko ʻeni ʻa Sisitā Sūsana W. Tena, ne hoko kimuʻa ko e palesiteni lahi ʻo e Kau Finemuí. Fakamatalaʻi ange ʻoku fakamanatu ʻe Sisitā Tena ʻi he lea ko ʻení ha faleʻi naʻá ne ʻoange ki ha taha ʻo ʻene ngaahi tama fefine ne toki mali pea kamata faʻu ʻa hono fāmilí:

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Susan W. Tanner

“Vakai ki he sīpinga ʻi he ʻapi hoʻo ngaahi kuí. Ne fakatou ʻohake ʻe he ngaahi kuí ʻenau ‘fānaú ʻi he māmá mo e moʻoní’ (T&F 93: 40). [Ko e ʻapi ne tupu hake ai hoʻo tamaí] ko ha fale ʻo e akó. Naʻá ne pehē ʻi he meʻafakaʻeiki ʻo ʻene tamaí kuo teʻeki ai ke ne ako ha tefitoʻi moʻoni ʻo e ongoongoleleí ʻi ha fakataha ʻa e Siasí naʻe teʻeki ke ne ako ʻi hono ʻapí tonu. “Ne hoko ʻa e Siasí ko ha fakalahi ki hono ʻapí” (“Did I Tell You … ?” Ensign pe Liahona May 2003, 73).

• Te ke lava fēfē ʻo teuteu ke fokotuʻu ha fale ʻo e ako—ʻo hangē ko ia ne fakamatalaʻi ʻe Sisitā Tená—ki ho fāmilí? Ko e hā ha ngaahi fakakaukau te ke ala maʻu kapau ʻe lea ʻaki ʻeni ʻe hoʻo fānau ʻi he kahaʻú ʻo kau ki he ʻapi ne nau tupu hake aí?

Tuhu ki he kupuʻi lea “ke hoko ko ha kau tangataʻi fonua tauhi lao” ʻi he palakipoé. Talaange ki he kau akó ʻoku lekooti ʻe he Tokāteline mo e Ngaahi Fuakava 134 ha “talaki fakahā ʻo e tui ʻo kau ki he ngaahi puleʻangá mo e ngaahi laó” ( ʻuluʻi fakamatala ki he vahe 134). Tokoni ke mahino ki he kau akó ʻa e kanotohi ʻo e vahe ko ʻení ʻaki hono ʻai ke lau leʻolahi ʻe ha tokotaha ako ʻa e ʻuluʻi fakamatala ki he vahé. Fakaafeʻi leva ha tokotaha ako ke ne lau leʻolahi ʻa e Tokāteline mo e Ngaahi Fuakava 134:5–6 pea lau ʻe ha tokotaha ako kehe ʻa e tefito ʻo e tui hono hongofulu mā uá. Kole ki he kalasí ke kumi ʻa e meʻa ne akoʻi ʻe he ʻEikí ʻo kau ki he ngaahi lao ʻo e fonuá.

• Ko e hā e ngaahi akonaki fekauʻaki mo e ngaahi puleʻangá mo e ngaahi lao ʻo e fonuá ʻoku makehe kiate koé? (Ke maʻu ha fakahinohino lahi ange, fakakaukau ke fakaafeʻi e kau akó ke nau lau pea fakafekauʻaki ʻa e Tokāteline mo e Ngaahi Fuakava 58:21 mo e 98:4–6.)

• ʻOkú ke pehē ko e hā ʻoku mahuʻinga ai ke hoko ʻa e ʻapí ko e tefitoʻi feituʻu ke ako ai e fānaú ke talangofua ki he ngaahi lao ʻo e fonuá?

Fakakaukau ke vahevahe e fakamatala ko ʻeni ʻa ʻEletā Niila A. Mekisuele (1926–2004) ʻo e Kōlomu ʻo e Kau ʻAposetolo ʻe Toko Hongofulu Mā Uá:

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Elder Neal A. Maxwell

“ʻI he siʻi ange hono fakahoko e fatongia fakaemātuʻá, ʻoku fakautuutu leva e fie maʻu ke tauhi e ngaahi laó. ʻE tokosiʻi maʻu pē ʻa e kau polisí kapau ʻe tokosiʻi e ngaahi mātuʻa leleí! Ko e meʻa tatau pē, he ʻikai feʻunga e ngaahi fale fakapōpulá kapau ʻoku ʻikai ha ngaahi ʻapi leleí” (“Take Especial Care of Your Family,” Ensign, May 1994, 89).

• ʻOkú ke pehē ko e hā e founga ʻe lava ke akoʻi ʻaki ʻe he mātuʻá e fānaú ke talangofua ki he ngaahi lao ʻo e fonuá?

• ʻOkú ke ʻiloʻi ha taha ʻokú ne talangofua matematé mo fakaʻapaʻapa ki he ngaahi lao ʻo e fonuá mo e kau ʻōfisa fakapuleʻangá? ʻOkú ke pehē ʻe kaunga fēfē e tōʻonga ko ʻení ki he fānau ʻa e tokotaha ko iá?

Poupouʻi e kau akó ke nau tuku ha taimi ʻi he ngaahi ʻaho ka hoko maí ke fakalaulauloto ai ki he ngaahi tefitoʻi moʻoni kuo pau ke akoʻi ʻe he mātuʻá ke faʻu ha fāmili lavameʻá. Kole ange ke nau faʻu ha palani ʻo e founga te nau lava ai ʻo muimui ki he ngaahi tefitoʻi moʻoni ko ʻení ʻi heʻenau moʻuí he taimí ni pea fakakau atu kinautolu ki honau fāmili he kahaʻú.